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	<description>A Modern-Day Matchmaker's Views on Dating, Matchmaking, Relationship, Love &#038; Life</description>
	<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 06:06:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Not &#8216;Single, Desperate &#038; Ugly&#8217; at all!</title>
		<link>http://violetlim.com/2008/07/12/not-single-desperate-ugly-at-all/</link>
		<comments>http://violetlim.com/2008/07/12/not-single-desperate-ugly-at-all/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:49:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[ Did I tell you that I have been invited to another wedding recently? Two of our clients got married.
And it was a real grand affair. It was held at one of the poshest (is there such a word?) hotel in Singapore. And we are reallly happy for them, because they are such nice people, and as time goes [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Spirit of Enterprise 2008 Award &#124; Your vote counts! ;)</title>
		<link>http://violetlim.com/2008/07/02/spirit-of-enterprise-2008-award-your-vote-counts/</link>
		<comments>http://violetlim.com/2008/07/02/spirit-of-enterprise-2008-award-your-vote-counts/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 16:33:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[ Dearest Readers,
Jamie and I have been nominated for a Singaporean award that aims to encourage entrepreneurial spirit. After sending out 10,000 dates, having 85% of these dates being rated as satisfactory to excellent, having been the matchmaker of close to 30 marriages and more than 80 couples in the last 4.5 years, we are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>And I thought I knew what I wanted&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://violetlim.com/2008/06/12/and-i-thought-i-knew-what-i-wanted/</link>
		<comments>http://violetlim.com/2008/06/12/and-i-thought-i-knew-what-i-wanted/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2008 15:24:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Reality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Perhaps Love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Insights]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ When meeting up with clients, one of the most common question I ask is, &#8220;What are you looking for in your ideal partner?&#8221;
Usually, the answer would include some physical attributes. Guys usually prefer to meet ladies who are slim and shorter than them. And ladies prefer to meet guys who are taller and of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Last Lecture</title>
		<link>http://violetlim.com/2008/05/31/the-last-lecture/</link>
		<comments>http://violetlim.com/2008/05/31/the-last-lecture/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 15:43:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Life Lessons]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Insights]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ In the past 2.5 months, I have been making many trips to Hong Kong.
For work, I have sacrificed a lot of family time with hubby and babe. And every time I step out quietly into the dark (I usually take the 6:40am flight) to a cab to the airport, I have to muster up [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Music and Lyrics, what comes First?</title>
		<link>http://violetlim.com/2008/05/20/music-and-lyrics-what-comes-first/</link>
		<comments>http://violetlim.com/2008/05/20/music-and-lyrics-what-comes-first/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 11:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Reality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Perhaps Love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Insights]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ I have not written about love for months. Those of you who are my faithful readers might have realized that. Well, it is not that &#8220;I am all out of love&#8221;, but I just have not had the opportunity to sit down, be inspired to write.
Recently, hubby and I caught up on our movie [...]]]></description>
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		<title>My Best Friend&#8217;s Birthday</title>
		<link>http://violetlim.com/2008/05/16/my-best-friends-birthday/</link>
		<comments>http://violetlim.com/2008/05/16/my-best-friends-birthday/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 11:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Life Lessons]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ Today is my best friend&#8217;s birthday.
She is 35 years older than I am. And even as she ages gracefully into her 60s, she still looks fabulous. Much to her delight, many people think she is at least 15 years younger than her real age. I wish I look like her when I am her [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Matchmaker, matchmaker, how do you match?</title>
		<link>http://violetlim.com/2008/04/26/matchmaker-matchmaker-how-do-you-match/</link>
		<comments>http://violetlim.com/2008/04/26/matchmaker-matchmaker-how-do-you-match/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 08:48:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Reality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[My Best Match]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Insights]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ As a modern-day matchmaker, I spend a fair bit of my time making matches.
One of the questions that I get asked all the time is&#8230; &#8220;How do you match?&#8221;, &#8220;How do you know that it is a good match?&#8221;
Truth is, I can never be 100% sure that it will turn out to be a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Love, in theory&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://violetlim.com/2008/04/13/love-in-theory/</link>
		<comments>http://violetlim.com/2008/04/13/love-in-theory/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 16:06:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bits &#038; Pieces]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Perhaps Love]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ Came across this theory by Robert Sternberg recently&#8230; and thought I would share it with you.
According to him, for a relationship to last, and to grow with time&#8230; the couple must experience 3 things:
Passion, Intimacy and Commitment, in no particular order. He describes passion as physical and sexual attraction. Intimacy is the closeness and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Want to be a Cupid?</title>
		<link>http://violetlim.com/2008/04/10/want-to-be-a-cupid/</link>
		<comments>http://violetlim.com/2008/04/10/want-to-be-a-cupid/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 11:14:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Quick Updates]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cupid]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Jerome Chasques]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Lisa Clampitt]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Matchmaking Institute]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Matchmaking Institute S.E.A.]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ This week has been an absolute madhouse&#8230; have been busy with the launch of the Matchmaking Institute in South East Asia.  
Some of you might know that prior to starting my business, I flew over to NY to attend a course in matchmaking. Yes! I did that, and I learnt so much! I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Inter-faith relationships, do they work?</title>
		<link>http://violetlim.com/2008/04/02/inter-faith-relationships-do-they-work/</link>
		<comments>http://violetlim.com/2008/04/02/inter-faith-relationships-do-they-work/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 16:03:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Violet</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Ask Violet!]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating Reality]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Violet, I recently met this nice, wonderful girl. You could say she is perhaps the dream girl I have been waiting for all these while.But there is a catch here: she is a staunch Christian and it is important for her to find someone who shares the same beliefs and values as her. The problem [...]]]></description>
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