However, those who are really single, desperate and ugly, will never, ever dream of going to dating agencies, because they will try all means and ways to get friends or others to hook them up, or source for someone online. And these people (not all, but some) are those who are rather dubious in the first place.

In any case, you are doing a great job, and fulfilling many people’s dreams of finding the right person to settle down with. So you are really doing a great service to mankind!

When I first met my future wife-to-be, she honestly did not seem like my “type” and the initial “feelings” were not really there. It was fortunate that I did not listen to these initial “feelings”. As time passed, our feelings blossomed and I grew more and more attracted to her, especially her character.

Today we are happily married and a beautiful son. Every day seems like a blessing. I thank God for the decision to simply be open minded and wise about my criteria.

As in its more important to avoid a partner with habits you absolutely cannot stand, and appreciating all other happy habits of him/her, even if those were not in the “I Want” list at the start

There’s so much in the world, so many different type of personalities - should be happy to experience what’s new and different. But know what you will not tolerate.